Why can not I get pregnant?

It is natural that most women have a great desire to be a mother and dream of this moment, even when still children.

Although not worry about taking precautions so that pregnancy does not occur without planning before, dreaming of having baby to build a happy family in future, seems to be subtance plans of young couples.

Unfortunately dreams do not always go as planned and it come for along time until pregnancy is detected, nothing happens. This is where a sense of frustration in which to face another month of hope seems to turn into an eternity.

What doctors say?

Medical opinion that the main cause of female infertility disorders of hormones that inhibit ovulation, polycystic ovarian syndrome, endometriosis, fallopian tubes or other problems. As for men, sperm-related infertility problems such as lack of production, reduction in number, low motility or abnormal sperm production is the most common.

However, there are many times that the couple does not have this problem and not the pregnancy is so long and it seems very far from reality.

What to do?

First we have to really know if we are in best physical and emotional conditions to support and generate a new being. Problems are not always just physical.

According to surveys and studies of psychosomatic diseases usually have a cause of emotional background and this cause should be investigated so that the couple can transform and adapt to future parenthood.

Several actions should be taken in preparing the "cradle cozy" in the womb, for the long-awaited arrival of the baby. Healthy food is the first step in your body to be able to produce and adequately feed the cells that give rise to the future baby.

A proper diet is rich in vitamins, minerals and fiber containing complete and varied fruits, vegetables, protein (meat, fish, eggs, dairy products), carbohydrates, cereals, grains, juices, and finally all the nutrients needed to maintain healthy body. we have to care with what everything we eat, through diet, or the air we breathe, only tends to help conception, while we can not say the same, so reckless, we make use of alcoholic beverages, cigarettes, antidepressants, or any other types of drugs without medical advice.

Another important factor in maintaining health is exercising or at least make a daily walk, which will help maintain blood circulation even in tiny peripheral vessels, contributing to a better cellular oxygenation.

But the fundamental and often overlooked by conventional medicine, which should be reviewed and adjusted so that fertilization occurs is emotional. When there is insecurity of the couple to take on parenting, especially when the woman does not feel "ready" to be a parent (almost always unconsciously), there seems to be a lock for that fertilization occurs normally.


Seeking emotional control

The anxiety to get pregnant, the stress of daily life, the collection of relatives and friends who subtly ask - "So, when it's heir?", "I ordered the baby?",  all of this contributes to a further increase insecurity and destroy most of the possibilities of successful fertilization occurs naturally.


Then competitors to prospective parents are starting to lose emotional control and increasingly insecure and anxious seeking doctors, in order to submit to various unnatural methods in order to achieve the long awaited paternity.

It is known that there are numerous cases of women who failed to become pregnant and opted for adoption, however, after having adopted a child, suddenly there is a spontaneous pregnancy.

Increasingly it is clear that when the phase of emotional tension is replaced by attention to the baby who was adopted and the couple no longer cares more about waiting anxiously for pregnancy, it appears surprising at all. It was not a coincidence as it is at this stage of tranquility of the couple that the chances of fertilization considerably increased and to everyone's surprise pregnancy occurs spontaneously.

However, it is necessary that a child is adopted so that future moms and dads are more calm and less anxious and able to prepare well the "ground" where the seed of new life can grow. There are many natural therapies used by professional naturólogos that can assist in this step that the couple needs an emotional self and physical and mental relaxation (see suggestion below). But most important is not to lose hope and keep searching, deep down, be sure that the power of love directed to this little being, as desired, is capable of removing any barriers that may inhibit or impede fertilization